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I'm a 35 year old woman and only niw is my career picking up, but my family only cres about when am I getting married and having kids. Their words are so hurtful that I have stopped attending family gatherings. Tell them you’ll get married and have kids when you’re good and ready. No one must pressure you into having a child or marriage. If your career is a priority and makes you happy then so be it. AgonySqueeza replied 232 days ago
Just recently got out of work and my girl sort of acted strangely. Not surprising really. I then met a new woman who is also unemployed. awe are kinda cool, but she keeps aaying she thought I was employed. Think we will last? Youre not solving your problem, deflecting... you want to be comfortable with someone because you're in the same situation. focus your energy in getting another job AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
Met a guy online, and I fell in love with him :-). But when we met in person I lost interest within an hour. He is great on the phone and online, am I being selfish if I only just wanna interact with him online? It happens, be honest with him. you don't want to lead him to nowhere maybe he can find someone who likes him that way AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
Met this wonderful lady, we click and stuff. But my friends keep teasing me about just how big she is. Everytime I am in public with her I see people staring, it's making me uncomfortable. Why? do you have a problem with her being big? Why should you let your friends discomfort dictate whether you should be with the lady because of her weight? if she's comfortable with her own body why does it bother you or anyone.. It seem like you're expressing your own prejudice in other people's eyes. focus on the relationship and not her weight AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
I live with my boyfriend and we just had a baby. I obviously went back home to give birth, but I am back at the flat now. Problem is that he goes out partying and leaves me with the baby. I have tried talking to him but he doesn't change. Help. Men!!! special breed I tell you, take care of yourself and the baby because you cant baby him too, tell him how you feel in a way that's not nagging but factual or get a nanny so that you can live your life too AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
Just bought a car, now my parents dont want to take a taxi anywhere. I have stopped livin my life and am driving them around to malls, friends' houses, church, town. And guess who pays for petrol when it runs out? you need to stop this right now before it gets way too uncontrollable
Yes its nice for them not to take a taxi sometimes but you need to stop this. Petrol is expensive make them aware
AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
I have a very abusive father and recently met a great guy I love. It took me a while to trust him, but eventually I opened up to how my father treats me and my father. And suddenly he treats me the same way my father does. How do I make it stop? walk away... abuse is not cool, you might find yourself in a more dangerous situation. he doesn't appreciate you AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
I have a very abusive father and recently met a great guy I love. It took me a while to trust him, but eventually I opened up to how my father treats me and my father. And suddenly he treats me the same way my father does. How do I make it stop? walk away... abuse is not cool, you might find yourself in a more dangerous situation. he doesn't appreciate you AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
My boyfriend broke up with me eight months ago, I just can't get over him. Help Me. Askies… it takes time to heal a broken heart and when you eventually get over him it will be over. Delete everything of him, number, pictures. EVERYTHING AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
My boyfriend broke up with me eight months ago, I just can't get over him. Help Me. Askies… it takes time to heal a broken heart and when you eventually get over him it will be over. Delete everything of him, number, pictures. EVERYTHING AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
Dating a very great guy, but yhuuuuuuu insecurities. I am always reassuring him that I love him, but he always insist I am in love with my exes or finds something else to start a fight with. Sizani bo! ever tried to find out what makes him feel insecure? it could be deep rooted. as long as you know that there's no reason he should... keep reassuring him, its cute AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
I met this great guy, he told me he has a girlfriend and I agrred to be with him as long as he doesn't make me feel like "The Other Woman". We were great at first, but now he is waaaay too possessive for my liking. Doesn't even want me to have male friends. No Hun... you are the other woman no matter how you look at it and how you feel and you still went ahead with the relationship. Guys who have "mains" will always be possessive. You have a choice to live with or change it AgonySqueeza replied 243 days ago
My bf is always reminding me of our religion differences and that will breakup even though we love each other so much. Am I wasting my time or should i go with the flow Religion should nit be a factor here, what is so different about your religion that your boyfriend feels the need to remind you? some guys take it so serious that its a deciding factor whether they want to be with you long term or not. Your boyfriend must explain and make you understand why he feels that different religions should be a problem... I know of a couple that guy Muslim and lady goes to ZCC and its not an issue. what's in the religion? AgonySqueeza replied 246 days ago
Been friends with this lady for so long, I have developed romantic feelings for her. A part of me believes she is also into me. The way she looks at me sometimes. I don't wanna ruin that. But also I am afraid of rejection just in case I misread her signals. Tell her, when you eventually find the courage to, leave a little room for disappointment
All the best , hope she feels the way too
AgonySqueeza replied 246 days ago
My cousin has been on my case that he wants me to be his second wife. He says it to everyone and It's uncomfortable because it just might affect the good relationship I have with his wife. Do you want to be his 2nd wife? if not why don't you tell him to stop telling people something that can be damaging to his marriage. AgonySqueeza replied 246 days ago

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