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why snail?
It was a originally a joke, tease by a friend, a lot of years back, based on my personality. When he mentioned this, something clicked inside of me. For a long time, when I would refer, to the nickname, the first impressions that would come out would be of a slimy snail. At that time, I spelt it as freaky snail.
I subsequently changed it, to Fr3kySnail, and have a couple of tee-shirts printed with this wording. I prefer, this version, as the name is ambiguous, and also symmetrical (5 5).
At that time, freaky caterpillar, and creepy bear was mentioned. Good thing I stuck with Fr3kySnail... replied 337 days ago
I subsequently changed it, to Fr3kySnail, and have a couple of tee-shirts printed with this wording. I prefer, this version, as the name is ambiguous, and also symmetrical (5 5).
At that time, freaky caterpillar, and creepy bear was mentioned. Good thing I stuck with Fr3kySnail... replied 337 days ago
What do you do when a relationship ends, mutually! how do you start over again, when you have to find a job, flat/house and your skint? also your moving back to where you once lived, Where do I start? Advice much appreciated
It's often very difficult to pick up the pieces and start afresh. you feel like you did your best to invest in said relationship, and now you have to start back from square one. I empathise with you, as I have experienced a similar circumstance recently.
Life is short, as they all say...there is wisdom in those words however. you have the advantage of a relationship ending mutually. It is very difficult when you have a relationship ending where there is still a negative atmosphere.
Here's what you do....You look at yourself in the mirror (not literally, or can help), and see that your you have your health, your state of mind, and the ability to do something. dont give up.
Skint, job, living accommodations....it sometimes feel like all the chips are stacked against you. there are a few options available to you. You can consider redeveloping your skills-set, to do something that can reward you financially.
We are living in difficult circumstances, and I am not going to full your head with false hope. It appears that you are moving back to where you once lived, that equates to parents/family. If that is the case, then that is your safety net, to help your recovery. There is sometimes a stigma as*ociated with moving back home. Look beyond that.
To sum up, use your extended network of friends and family for additional support. I wish you all the best. If you have further questions please ask. I can be supportive as a friend. I do not have the answers, but what I do know, with what I have said, and what you already know and have, you have the ingredients to make something happen.
fr3kysnail replied 388 days ago
Life is short, as they all say...there is wisdom in those words however. you have the advantage of a relationship ending mutually. It is very difficult when you have a relationship ending where there is still a negative atmosphere.
Here's what you do....You look at yourself in the mirror (not literally, or can help), and see that your you have your health, your state of mind, and the ability to do something. dont give up.
Skint, job, living accommodations....it sometimes feel like all the chips are stacked against you. there are a few options available to you. You can consider redeveloping your skills-set, to do something that can reward you financially.
We are living in difficult circumstances, and I am not going to full your head with false hope. It appears that you are moving back to where you once lived, that equates to parents/family. If that is the case, then that is your safety net, to help your recovery. There is sometimes a stigma as*ociated with moving back home. Look beyond that.
To sum up, use your extended network of friends and family for additional support. I wish you all the best. If you have further questions please ask. I can be supportive as a friend. I do not have the answers, but what I do know, with what I have said, and what you already know and have, you have the ingredients to make something happen.
fr3kysnail replied 388 days ago
What's your job?
I normally do high end business to business sales. Selling IT software. I once worked for an american company, who were the leaders in their field. I had a £1milion pound yearly target...Loved that.
currently not working at the moment. Looking to get back into the swing soon. replied 389 days ago
currently not working at the moment. Looking to get back into the swing soon. replied 389 days ago
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