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HalfwayDecent replied
to poggergranny
846 days ago
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HalfwayDecent replied
913 days ago
Dealing with chronic health issues for over a decade, but struggling at the moment to feel hopeful that I could ever be be well. How do you hold on to hope?
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Dealing with chronic health issues for over a decade, but struggling at the moment to feel hopeful that I could ever be well. How do you hold on to hope?
A.
Hey thanks for the question and Iām so sorry to hear about your health issues. Obviously, I have no idea about the true extent of these (the complexities and nuances) but Iām assuming theyāre impacting the quality of your life. Especially as theyāve been going on for so long now, which I do understand just how much of a slog this can be.
Still, congratulations, sounds weird to say I know. But you have come a long way, Iām sure youāve had quite the journey, even learned a lot about yourself (and the world). Something Iāve actually said before, as much as I know itās not ideal, but while navigating health issues you are still living. Itās like an unwanted adventure but an adventure nonetheless.
Okay, now hope. So, again Iām not certain of your exact circumstance, what I am wondering though is if youāre (to an extent) waiting to get āwellā so you can live again, even enjoy life. I know I did this myself at one point in time. And why I say this, itās possible that thereās an almost toxic attachment to this hope of wellness, and the reason you get out of bed in the morning is to fulfil this mission of healing. And itās this attachment to hope (of a better day), this is Iām guessing why youāre struggling.
But look, maybe you will get better maybe you wonāt (which I totally pray that you do), only is it worth crippling your life even more waiting for an outcome? Or, sorta what Iām trying to say, can you put this āholding on to hopeā thing on the back-burner a little and enjoy what you have? The little things. Like I have no doubt that youāre awesome in so many ways which are possibly being suppressed because of your current mindset. And sure continue on with your treatments, yet Iād say having compassion toward yourself may be as equally as important.
So, how do you hold on to hope? Iād say the best way is to continue on with your life as best you can. Donāt waste another day. I mean, hope is good, sure, but living is way better.
Get passionate about something bigger than yourself (and your health issues).
Hope this helps.
HalfwayDecent replied 913 days ago
Dealing with chronic health issues for over a decade, but struggling at the moment to feel hopeful that I could ever be well. How do you hold on to hope?
A.
Hey thanks for the question and Iām so sorry to hear about your health issues. Obviously, I have no idea about the true extent of these (the complexities and nuances) but Iām assuming theyāre impacting the quality of your life. Especially as theyāve been going on for so long now, which I do understand just how much of a slog this can be.
Still, congratulations, sounds weird to say I know. But you have come a long way, Iām sure youāve had quite the journey, even learned a lot about yourself (and the world). Something Iāve actually said before, as much as I know itās not ideal, but while navigating health issues you are still living. Itās like an unwanted adventure but an adventure nonetheless.
Okay, now hope. So, again Iām not certain of your exact circumstance, what I am wondering though is if youāre (to an extent) waiting to get āwellā so you can live again, even enjoy life. I know I did this myself at one point in time. And why I say this, itās possible that thereās an almost toxic attachment to this hope of wellness, and the reason you get out of bed in the morning is to fulfil this mission of healing. And itās this attachment to hope (of a better day), this is Iām guessing why youāre struggling.
But look, maybe you will get better maybe you wonāt (which I totally pray that you do), only is it worth crippling your life even more waiting for an outcome? Or, sorta what Iām trying to say, can you put this āholding on to hopeā thing on the back-burner a little and enjoy what you have? The little things. Like I have no doubt that youāre awesome in so many ways which are possibly being suppressed because of your current mindset. And sure continue on with your treatments, yet Iād say having compassion toward yourself may be as equally as important.
So, how do you hold on to hope? Iād say the best way is to continue on with your life as best you can. Donāt waste another day. I mean, hope is good, sure, but living is way better.
Get passionate about something bigger than yourself (and your health issues).
Hope this helps.
HalfwayDecent replied 913 days ago
